Controversial podcaster, Toke Makinwa opens up on why cheating in a relationship or marriage is no longer an absolute deal breaker to her like it used to be.
In a podcast released on Thursday, Toke Makinwa, who accused her ex-husband, Maje Ayida of being a serial cheat, shared her perspective on infidelity over the years.
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She mentioned that with age, she has come to realize that women may find it easier to cheat, and the primary reason some refrain is due to self-restraint.
In her words;
“I think a lot of women need to reject the stigma. If I cheat, it’s okay for the man to do the same to me.
“I feel like I have gotten to a place in my life where you can’t shame the shameless. If I cheat tomorrow and you want to leave I will respect you. If you want to stay, don’t use it to taunt me because I have won the crown of a cheater.
“If I’m going to be very honest, cheating is no longer a deal breaker for me. It used to be; when I was younger, I would never have been able to say these. I would have said if he cheats, I’m putting him back in the street.
“As I grew older, I realized men cheat, women cheat. It’s easier for a woman to cheat, it’s self restraint that stops us. The reason why I’m not quick to put you out is I might be the first person to cheat on you. Forgive me as I have forgiven you.”